“There is no security in nature…life is a daring adventure or nothing!”
The perfect pearl in the oyster of your life.
So let’s get to these essence of the ideas and stories you have heard from me this month and uncover the pearl in the oyster of your life.
Here it is!
Are you ready for it? You have a perfect life!
It doesn’t matter what is happening to you…
It doesn’t matter what is going on in your life…it is the perfect life for you.
It doesn’t matter whether you have a million dollars or cancer!
It doesn’t matter if you have no kids or nine kids!
It doesn’t matter if you are unemployed or own a thriving business!
You have the perfect life for you.
You have the perfect life for you! Here are just 10 of the reasons why:
Why? … Because you are alive!
Why? … Because you can read this!
Why? … Because you get to live today!
Why? … Because you have a spirit determined to survive and thrive!
Why? … Because you have a mind which can create anything!
Why? … Because you can design your own future!
Why? … Because you have a contribution to make!
Why? … Because you have friends who care about you!
Why? … Because you have a family who love you!
Why? … Because you have a body designed for survival!
We don’t live in Disney World, we live in the real world.
People rush off to places like Disney World to prove there is pleasure with out pain if you go to the right place and time. They really go to discover it is a Fantasy Land. This is why they don’t move there permanently. Once you pay for the airline tickets, hotels, food, admission fees plus the heat, the squabbling family and so on, you learn it is, indeed, a Fantasy Land and you have paid for it.
If people didn’t learn this they would stay in these places and never come home and there would be no need to promote them. Such places would already be full of people wanting to live there full time.
You have the perfect life already!
So you can’t have a fantasy life, it doesn’t exist anywhere!
You don’t even have a good life, you have something more valuable…a perfect life!
Lucky for you…you have a real life and the perfect one for you to be who you are!
You have a life where people and events support and challenge you to learn to appreciate the gift of your life!
You have a life with people and events which help you uncover your strong spirit, your special genius, your special contribution, your special value, your real friends, your family’s love and your special abilities.
You have a life filled to the brim with opportunities to uncover how fortunate you are to be alive in this second, this minute, this hour, this day, this month, this year, this century!
Remember Jamie, Betty and Benjamin!
If Jamie can uncover how losing his hand was perfect pearl for him…
If Betty can uncover how experiencing incest was perfect pearl for her…
And, if Benjamin can uncover how developing cancer was perfect pearl for him…
What could possibly stop you from uncovering how your challenges were perfect pearls for you to learn to appreciate who you are, what you do and what you have at this very second?
Check out the Take Away Tool in the first article this month http://mental-health-center.com/you-had-the-perfect-parents-for-you/ for the tool you can use to uncover the perfect pearls in your life.
Next time we will look at addictions…and like me, you are an addict…everyone is an addict!
POINTS TO PONDER AND REMEMBER are:
1. You have the perfect life for you!
2. What ever life you have had has enabled you to survive.
3. There is no pleasure with equal pain at the same time.
4. Marketing is about selling fantasies, one sided perceptions.
5. Every challenge has ensured your learned to survive more effectively.
6. Everyone’s life is filled with supports and challenges equally.
7. Your life is the perfect one for you to be who you are today.